Fruitbat wrote:I think I side with my cat.
I thought I saw someone deliberately derail this part of my attempt to help him, and I reacted very strongly, without thinking it through.
That has spiralled into a definite and ongoing distraction, so I'm leaving that behind now to focus on what is really important.
If anyone needs my attention they can always PM me.
If luis completes his investigation I'm sure that one of the posters who has a good heart will let me know.
Thanks very much for asking me here and the kindesses that some of you have shown towards me, and particularly towards Blackjack.
I'll try and post weekly updates here.
I don't currently have the skill to open his mouth far enough to expose the growth, nor do I have the bravery/recklessness required to try, so I can't yet really see whether the primary objective is being met, but the secondary objective of easing his discomfort and getting him to eat, does definitely seem to have been met. I'll know all I need to in about a week or so.
FB.
That "someone" was You.
You created the distraction.
Kevin